I’m twenty years old, intensely bashful as well as have no friends. My most appropriate crony of 4 years has only strictly finished the loyalty that couldn’t have come during the worse time as you were due to pierce to London together in Sep to go to university as well as were starting to lease the prosaic together. It’s as well late to stay in halls right away as well as we cannot even sense the thought of starting the flatshare with brand new people. It looks similar to I’m starting to have to enroll my parents’ assistance in anticipating me the prosaic of my own to pierce into. But we am so bashful we can’t even have phone calls we do not know how upon earth we am starting to cope vital in London upon my own with 0 self-confidence. Please can any one give me any advice?
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It must be very hard. It isn’t easy to make friends in London at the best of times. You should post of places like Craiglist and Move That. You should also check out City Socialising. With regards to the whole flatshare thing you should just take the plunge, join a site like SpareRoom and email a few people. I used to be painfully shy myself, you just have to push through it will make you stronger.
I know this is going to be hard for you, but what you really need to focus on, is getting some confidence and getting rid of your shyness (not completely of course because that will be very hard). Start by going out regularly maybe into shops and buy something, to talk to the cashier. If that’s too hard, then talk to people online. Use online chat worlds or something (a little immature, but it will get you used to talking to people). Try something like habbo.com.
If this isn’t the sort of thing you were looking for, I still think working on your shyness and confidence is the way forward for you
Hope this helps