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Long but help me please I beg you :'( – Should I end our relationship cause of his mother..?

Traveler — Sun, 28 Aug 2011 15:43:24 +0000

Thanks in advance.
I overtly do not no any some-more with my boyfriends mother. I’ve been dating my beloved for 6 months upon a 23rd of this month as well as a been a most appropriate 6 months of my life. I’ve never been this happy. Let me insist my past 1st afterwards you’ll assimilate because he equates to so most as well me. (5-16)I got abused by my father when we was a kid . (Age 6-8) we got passionate abused when we was a kid by boys who were my "Role Models". (2005-2010) we got pounded as well as bullied whilst in propagandize from year 7. (Age 16) A year ago my hermit who has autism indicted me of incest rape as well as we got taken in to caring means in a military talk we pennyless down as well as told them about my past as well as they knew my hermit was lieing. (Aged 16) When we was in caring we got bullied by a alternative lasses as well as boys. So my silent ask if we could come behind home they pronounced approbation aslong as we feel protected (I did as my silent kicked my father out). we was during home for dual weeks yet we fell out with my MUM alot means we was doubt because she didnt assistance me when my father strike me. we had alot of time to consider when we was in care. (Aged 16-17) Then my silent sent me up to my dad’s family in scotland was up there from 19.10.2010 – 1.02.2011 as well as it was a misfortune time of my life! My so called aunty we was liveing with removed me from everyone as well as took divided my phone as well as internet as well as took 80% off my income await we was liveing off for lease even yet she was removing houseing benfits for me. My aunt additionally attempted to get me down as mental, she took me to a sanatorium as well as got them to do exam perplexing to get me down as mental as well as they only pronounced we have depression. She even managed to get my beloved of sixteen months from Manchester (Long Distance) to end me means she was observant I’m mental as well as which we didnt wish to phone him or content or encounter up means it was over. But it wasnt she took my phone. She’s 48 as well as asked me to be a surragot as well as lift a babie for her as she cant get profound as well as has never had a chid. What a hell?! But she kept perplexing to get me down as mental as well as we was removing there so we got myself a phone saved up as most as we could as well as came behind to london (where I’m from). Soon as we came behind my silent let me stay with her for dual weeks afterwards upon valentines day we went without a country as well as finished up in a B&B as well as whilst we was there I’d revisit my silent as well as have use of her net as well as a single day we logged onto facebook as well as got a crony ask of "Tony" (Name Changed). He was a kid which went a same propagandize as my hermit (a boreding school) as well as has autism only similar to him, so we motionless to supplement him as well as we proposed articulate he knew zero about what we was starting by yet he asked me if I’d similar to as well encounter him so we arraged to go Cinimar as well as watch Paul. At a time we didnt relise his silent was a single of my aged category training partner from propagandize (I got upon with her behind then). But we went to watch paul as well as it was amazeing he done me grin as well as hee-haw as well as during a end of a night we kissed. It was enchanting we felt a connection. So we met up agian as well as a 2nd time we told him all we only told you’s as well as it was have or mangle for me as well as he grabed my palm as well as pulled me tighten as well as pronounced "I’ll never leave your side" as well as given which day he hasnt. He’s upheld me as well as right away I’m in a lodging place as well as he helps me so most a imaginary as well as we try as well as assistance him. He’s assisting me go behind to collage as well as get my hold up sorted. Also when we was ready to have sex we had it with him for a 1st time as well as we never wish as well lax him. We havent argued once.. as well as a scarcely been 6 months. Tony’s already pronounced he’d adore to outlay his hold up with me, I’m a lady he wants to wed as well as have immature kids with when we’re older. we wouldnt excaly be a great residence mother yet Im quiescent yet he doesnt thoughts he loves me for me. Anyways his silent makeing me consider twice about us. Shes so over protecting means he’s a youngest of 5 boys as well as has his autism yet he not prolonged ago got told if he longed for to get dignosed with it right away it wouldnt be possible. His mums observant I’m a complaint as well as we disagree with everyone as well as I’m a bad change in Tony’s life. But Tony says I’m nothing of them. If anything Tony influence’s me in a great approach as well as we’ve both insane eachother happy. Even his friends summary me upon facebook as well as text’s observant I’ve done him so happy as well as which we should never leave him. Hes a improved chairman means of me. But because cant his silent see it. I’m haveing a mangle down about it. we couldnt nap final night. I’ve not prolonged ago found out I’ve had serious basin as well as might have bi-polor so thats some-more upon my conduct as well as we dont need his silent putting me down. Please assistance me we dont no what to do. we consider Tony’s a adore of my hold up as well as even yet I’m still immature (17) we dont wish as well lax him we cant.

Sorry which a long..
Thank-You
Sammie

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Also if we wish as well ask me subject etc or find out some-more greatfully ask as well as I’ll do Additional Details.

[Long but help me please I beg you :'( ]Should I end our relationship cause of his mother?

Traveler — Sat, 27 Aug 2011 01:02:31 +0000

Sorry which a long..
Thank-You
Sammie
Also if we wish as well ask me subject etc or find out some-more greatfully ask as well as I’ll do Additional Details.

Also:
Im so low during a impulse means of her. we stayed up all final night great as well as finished up being sick. When we was upon a phone to him final night.. she came in as well as proposed being bold about me when she knew we was upon a phone. So Tony finished a call so we didnt have to listen to it.

Long but help me please I beg you :'( – Should I end our relationship cause of his mother?

Traveler — Thu, 25 Aug 2011 01:44:46 +0000

Thanks in advance.
I overtly do not no any some-more with my boyfriends mother. I’ve been dating my beloved for 6 months upon a 23rd of this month as well as a been a most appropriate 6 months of my life. I’ve never been this happy. Let me insist my past 1st afterwards you’ll assimilate because he equates to so most as well me. (5-16)I got abused by my father when you was a kid . (Age 6-8) you got passionate abused when you was a kid by boys who were my "Role Models". (2005-2010) you got pounded as well as bullied whilst in propagandize from year 7. (Age 16) A year ago my hermit who has autism indicted me of incest rape as well as you got taken in to caring means in a military talk you pennyless down as well as told them about my past as well as they knew my hermit was lieing. (Aged 16) When you was in caring you got bullied by a alternative lasses as well as boys. So my silent ask if you could come behind home they pronounced approbation aslong as you feel protected (I did as my silent kicked my father out). you was during home for dual weeks yet you fell out with my MUM alot means you was doubt because she didnt assistance me when my father strike me. you had alot of time to consider when you was in care. (Aged 16-17) Then my silent sent me up to my dad’s family in scotland was up there from 19.10.2010 – 1.02.2011 as well as it was a misfortune time of my life! My so called aunty you was liveing with removed me from everyone as well as took divided my phone as well as internet as well as took 80% off my income await you was liveing off for lease even yet she was removing houseing benfits for me. My aunt additionally attempted to get me down as mental, she took me to a sanatorium as well as got them to do exam perplexing to get me down as mental as well as they only pronounced you have depression. She even managed to get my beloved of sixteen months from Manchester (Long Distance) to end me means she was observant I’m mental as well as which you didnt wish to phone him or content or encounter up means it was over. But it wasnt she took my phone. She’s 48 as well as asked me to be a surragot as well as lift a babie for her as she cant get profound as well as has never had a chid. What a hell?! But she kept perplexing to get me down as mental as well as you was removing there so you got myself a phone saved up as most as you could as well as came behind to london (where I’m from). Soon as you came behind my silent let me stay with her for dual weeks afterwards upon valentines day you went but a country as well as finished up in a B&B as well as whilst you was there I’d revisit my silent as well as have use of her net as well as a single day you logged onto facebook as well as got a crony ask of "Tony" (Name Changed). He was a kid which went a same propagandize as my hermit (a boreding school) as well as has autism only similar to him, so you motionless to supplement him as well as you proposed articulate he knew zero about what you was starting by yet he asked me if I’d similar to as well encounter him so you arraged to go Cinimar as well as watch Paul. At a time you didnt relise his silent was a single of my aged category training partner from propagandize (I got upon with her behind then). But you went to watch paul as well as it was amazeing he done me grin as well as hee-haw as well as during a end of a night you kissed. It was enchanting you felt a connection. So you met up agian as well as a 2nd time you told him all you only told you’s as well as it was have or mangle for me as well as he grabed my palm as well as pulled me tighten as well as pronounced "I’ll never leave your side" as well as given which day he hasnt. He’s upheld me as well as right away I’m in a lodging place as well as he helps me so most a imaginary as well as you try as well as assistance him. He’s assisting me go behind to collage as well as get my hold up sorted. Also when you was ready to have sex you had it with him for a 1st time as well as you never wish as well lax him. We havent argued once.. as well as a scarcely been 6 months. Tony’s already pronounced he’d adore to outlay his hold up with me, I’m a lady he wants to wed as well as have immature kids with when we’re older. you wouldnt excaly be a great residence mom yet Im quiescent yet he doesnt thoughts he loves me for me. Anyways his silent makeing me consider twice about us. Shes so over protecting means he’s a youngest of 5 boys as well as has his autism yet he not prolonged ago got told if he longed for to get dignosed with it right away it wouldnt be possible. His mums observant I’m a complaint as well as you disagree with everyone as well as I’m a bad change in Tony’s life. But Tony says I’m nothing of them. If anything Tony influence’s me in a great approach as well as we’ve both insane eachother happy. Even his friends summary me upon facebook as well as text’s observant I’ve done him so happy as well as which you should never leave him. Hes a improved chairman means of me. But because cant his silent see it. I’m haveing a mangle down about it. you couldnt nap final night. I’ve not prolonged ago found out I’ve had serious basin as well as might have bi-polor so thats some-more upon my conduct as well as you dont need his silent putting me down. Please assistance me you dont no what to do. you consider Tony’s a adore of my hold up as well as even yet I’m still immature (17) you dont wish as well lax him you cant.

Sorry which a long..
Thank-You
Sammie
Also if you wish as well ask me subject etc or find out some-more greatfully ask as well as I’ll do Additional Details.

Also:
Im so low during a impulse means of her. you stayed up all final night great as well as finished up being sick. When you was upon a phone to him final night.. she came in as well as proposed being bold about me when she knew you was upon a phone. So Tony finished a call so you didnt have to listen to it.
Halebop – He’s pronounced he told her as well as she pronounced "If you wish to be with her as well as it creates you happy afterwards go for it" yet which was a couple of months ago. you saw him yesterday as well as you only layed in bed as well as talked as well as he was revelation me he knows I’m a a single as well as he wants to have me his mom when we’re older. Hes not similar to routinely lads either. Hes so singular as well as special to me a unreal. I’d be mislaid but him as well as you feel similar to I’m looseing him right away interjection as well his mummy.
U_S_S_Enterprise – I’m looking assistance dont be concerned about that, a only his mom doesnt help.

How can i get the money for a flat deposit? I get my student loan in October but need to move in September.?

Traveler — Wed, 17 Aug 2011 08:49:02 +0000

Hi,
I am starting to investigate during middlesex in Oct , So need to pierce to london in September

My complaint is , we need around £1200 – deposition as well as a single months lease in advance.
But we need this now, as Oct is as well late since we begin uni.
I attempted removing an overdraft of £1500 from barclays though there resonse was until we see we have been in attendance university we can not give we a overdraft.

Does anybody know where we can get help.
eg..intrest giveaway loan which would take me upon my circumstances
phone numbers of may be a legislature or supervision which could help?

Any suggestions would be severely appreciated.

Much thanks.

What would you do if this was your brother?

Traveler — Tue, 05 Jul 2011 17:24:39 +0000

My hermit is unequivocally intelligent, though has no usual clarity or pleasantness to others.

We share the skill – we compensate lease as well as half the bills.

He is the monetary confidant so earns the great wage, as well as likes to live it up the bit, which is satisfactory enough.

But check this out…
He hires the cleaner, pays them £20 for 2 hours each Tuesday. You competence consider which is OK,
but…
KITCHEN:
Tuesday night – comes in, cooks, leaves pots/pans/dishes etc… upon kitchen worktop.
Wednesday sunrise – has breakfast, creates lunch for later, leaves dishes/cups etc… as well as crumbs upon worktop.
Wednesday lunch – we need to cook, worktop lonesome in crumbs as well as unwashed pots/pan/dishes etc…, so we neat it up.
Wednesday night – repeat of Tuesday night
Thursday Morning – repeat of Wednesday morning… as well as so upon compartment Tuesday morning.
BATHROOM:
Has bath or showering – doesn’t wash bath
Has trim – doesn’t wash sink
Uses toiletries – leaves them anywhere rsther than than where there were.

To me it is unwashed as well as unpleasant to leave such disaster in common areas (kitchen, bathroom) so we regularly transparent up after myself.

THEN:
Recycling – is left by front doorway so easy to put out in morning, hermit regularly goes out first, leaves recycling during the behind of even upon pick up days. so we put out the recycling many days.

You competence consider all my brother’s actions have been bad, BUT thereafter this…

On the singular occasions which I’ve left something in the kitchen play to soak, he comes in as well as says "Clear which up"
On the the single arise we didn’t wash the bath (due to reception the phone call as well as had to pour out out) he questions why?
If we leave the recycling by the door, he moans it is still there when he comes homes.

Problem is – it is his house, he owes it as well as we usually lease the single room, we feel settled, as well as we have been tighten to mum. we do not wish to complain, though he unequivocally annoys me with his antics, though is great as well as understanding if we have problems.

I HATE the approach he is during home as well as miss of caring to cleanliness, certainly he knows we need to have have have have use of of of of the kitchen as well as bathroom, as well as to share alternative chores similar to the recycling.

Another thing we hatred is being the newcomer in his automobile or being out with him – his Blackberry is roughly super-glued to his hand, checking for work e-mails, football scores etc… whilst pushing or carrying food out, firstly we never know if we can speak (is it work or usually football scores?), as well as secondly regulating the phone whilst pushing is bootleg as well as dangerous, as well as he isn’t the many appropriate driver. His friend’s have commented to me how frightened they have been when he is driving, as well as how irritating his Blackberry obsession is, though similar to me which do not wish to contend anything about it in box it upsets him.

Last week we were divided for dual days, he told me which we wouldn’t need my laptop as road residence didn’t have wi-fi as well as it was usually dual days. we obliged, usually to find road residence did have wi-fi, as well as him upon his Blackberry roughly all the time, even during tours as well as alternative stuff, we had the guided debate of Wembley Stadium thereafter went upon the London Eye – Blackberry in have have have have use of of of of ALL the time, was annoying since guides as well as others noticed.

Sometimes we even have excuses not to go out with him, or stay out late so which we do not see him in the evenings. He classes which as me being out removing drunk, OK we competence have the couple of drinks, though in being it’s since we can’t bear to be during home due to his mess. we would rsther than eat out than transparent up his disaster as well as thereafter equivocate him for the evening, as we have the feeling we wish to contend something, though know he will have have have have use of of of of the "It’s my house" forgive to transparent his ways.

In my view, if we have have have have use of of of of something (for cooking, showering etc…) we transparent up afterwards, thereafter it’s the elementary box of dusting/cleaning floors once the week.

I’m meditative of starting divided the single week (Tuesday to Tuesday) as well as saying what his cleanser would have of his disaster when they incited up upon the Tuesday – we reckon they would possibly exclude to clean, not come behind or assign extra!!! – Maybe which would have him realize how unwashed he is!!!

He is the great brother, though SO ANNOYING many of the time!!!

WHAT WOULD YOU DO, IF YOU WERE IN THIS SITUATION??????
I can’t get my own house… I’m upon benefits as we am caring for the mother. This is since we need to stay tighten to her – he has the great job, we didn’t so we give up work to caring for mum.

London Housing Solutions "LHS" landlords from hell?

Traveler — Sat, 02 Jul 2011 07:42:11 +0000

Hi was wondering if there is any one else out there who lease with London housing solutions we have been the reside of there’s for over the year as well as have been left to live in flattering bad conditions each time we phone to protest we only get oral to identical to mud as well as zero ever gets done. we have attempted to register upon the council, though since we have sufficient room space they contend we am sufficient housed. Finding an additional in isolation rented place is roughly unfit since they wish to pointer Tenancies true divided as well as LHS wish 4 weeks notice, as well as we disbelief I’ll essentially see my tumble deposition back. Is any one in or been in the identical incident as well as if so how did we get out of this calamity Thanks

my family trouble, mainly my dad and mom?

Traveler — Wed, 08 Jun 2011 03:12:26 +0000

yesterday seventeen of june my mother father as well as sis have been fighting, it is becausee my mother had a little addictions with something (not ethanol sex or drugs). so my father took upon a side of my sis there was shoutting a little assertive attacks yet i have managed to stop my mother from it (and my sis stopped my father from it), no a single was hurt, a only which i know their violation up, as well as it did happen, mother talked about violation up with dad, father additionally did wish to mangle a attribute means she told her to only leave a residence if she was not gonna stop murmuring things or observant them.

so right divided a june eighteen my mother programmed to lease a residence leave as well as work as well as i consider she was additionally asking father about devorce, as well as was additionally talkig about starting to america to live a brand brand new hold up yet us (by a approach my mother has a sister called mildred in america) as well as right divided i dont assimilate my father she doesnt wish mother to leave london he pronounced which if she went divided she will come behind home, by which i consider leave a house, stay with a crony for a whilst than come behind is what father meant. my mother proposed great as well as pronounced which she cannot unclothed her hold up here with us anymore. she wants to leave my father have a brand brand new life, than my father started, he pronounced which if your withdrawal go behind to philippines my mother was great after a phone call (i assimilate mom, a tough in there), she pronounced which your father longed for me to humour he wants me to go to philippines. can u pls investigate my situation, can we assistance me know since my father is behaving which way. whats my moms initial step, what is she gonna do now.
im not a bad daughter we know may be i additionally took upon a side of my sis since of what is function in a hauz,(what regularly happened in a hauz when my father is working) yet i wish my mother to have a most appropriate of her hold up if she is formulation to pierce divided this family, thats since i am asking this.
but i dont similar to a actuality which she’s presumption which i wish her to leave right away, yet a ok yet if she thinks which approach so be it, ainit.

Is this girl (that I met online) messing with me?

Traveler — Mon, 06 Jun 2011 12:30:14 +0000

Ok, prior to long over 1 week ago, you met a lady online upon Facebook Poker. We seemed to rught away strike it off, became gin rummy buddies, afterwards became correct friends upon FB. We plead online every day for multiform hours, as good as she even phones me during night (which infrequently leads to phone sex). She has sent me a little XXX cinema of herself, though never shows her face; so you am not 100% certain it is her – nonetheless she reassures me it is.

Here is a little some-more info:
1) She is GORGEOUS!!! you privately do not consider you am tasteful sufficient to ever capture a lady similar to this. Ive not had a gf for multiform years due to myself not essentially seeking for one, AND a actuality which you do not go out as good as encounter people; It is NOT since you am boundary nauseous (altho you customarily competence be….) so my certainty in myself is SHOT TO HELL
2) She is really intelligent as good as is a competent Solicitor….Im not which smart, as good as have no education (Im right away precision in Construction – work formed learning).
3) She has not long ago worked as stick dancer in critical mens club, though has right away accomplished here (due to me asking her to stop as good as her passed nans wishes which she would quit). She has finished really VERY good for herself from this.
4) She has paid for her ENORMOUS unit in London in FULL……I live in a tiny prosaic which you lease from legislature – 300 MILES AWAY.
5) The initial day you met online as good as became FB friends, she told me of bad things which happened in her past……maybe to see if it would ‘scare me off’ ?????
6) She has ALOT of money….I have NONE. you am right away upon JSA (job seekers allowance) whilst you do my Construction course. NOTE: Her income is NOT critical to me, you favourite her prior to she even told me about her monetary situation. you would still be meddlesome if she was a checkout user during Asda – as good as you have told her this.
7) She keeps observant which she will compensate for things (wedding, holiday, domicile items, shopping…etc..etc). you have regularly pronounced which you do not similar to this, as good as she should keep her income for herself – she replies "whats cave is yours babe".

We have NOT nonetheless met in person, she is pushing over here (for a initial time) to see me subsequent weekend; she has even put her unit up for rent, as we’re formulation upon her relocating in with me. During a conversations, you ceaselessly plead it any alternative which you ‘Love / Miss’ a single another. We have even discussed marriage, young kids & alternative destiny plans. you know this (and relocating in together) is ‘premature’ as good as you have even voiced my concerns to her about this (what if she gets here as good as doesnt similar to me? my home? anything…) BUT she replies which would NEVER occur as good as which she thinks you am removing cold feet – may be you am?!?

Despite all of this, all you can keep meditative is…why??? Why would a lady similar to this, ever be meddlesome in a man similar to me??? you feel soooo propitious to have met her, as good as you keep awaiting to arise up. She is ALLLLL you can consider about lately, you adore a conversations as good as Im regularly happy/smiling when shes online & we’re chatting

So, my subject is this….????

Am you being as good gullible? Am you vouchsafing myself tumble for a lady as good easily? Will this attribute work? Is she personification games with me??????

I realize which you customarily have to wait for until she gets here so you can find out for myself….but you am removing reeeaaaallllly shaken AND vehement as a days tighten in upon her arrival.

I am severely soft with this girl, as good as since you have not had a ‘serious relationship’ in multiform years, you am seeking brazen to carrying a single nonetheless again. you suspect this is a means for my ‘premature skeleton for a future’ which you explained earlier.

I would conclude your input, as good as if there have been ANY ‘serious relationship’ questions which you consider you should ask her…or…if you consider you should plead alternative possibilities – PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE let me know.

Thank you all!!!!
You should additionally know this:

I have positively NO DOUBT which she is a lady in a pics, you have most most others of her…some were taken underneath my direction. When you verbalise upon a phone, a customarily for an hour or 2 as good as you speak about EVERYTHING, you both contend how gentle you have been together as good as how good you know any other.
And since she is utterly a bit not as big than me, as good as weighs half as most as me……I am NOT endangered which she is an ‘Internet Serial Killer’ so you am not disturbed about my life.

I am Internet-Savvy as good as know how to acknowledge a infancy of a weirdos out there, so greatfully dont contend which ‘shes not who she says she is’ OR ‘one of us have been starting to kill a other’ since a customarily not possible.

WTF do i do now! sex drugs and love?

Traveler — Sun, 29 May 2011 19:37:00 +0000

iv been saying this lady i work with for about 4 months now, upon as well as off, thing is she has a beloved she lives with for a past 3 years.

The boyfriend, has no pursuit (besides offered drugs) as well as has no income, profitable sed lady £100 rent, he has strike a lady in subject in arguments (pushing her upon a bed, hands around her consummate etc) he is additionally regularly out late in a week until 10,11-1am offered drug or during friends houses.

The lady has her name upon a franchise during a flat, says she loves a boyfriend, though do sent see a destiny with him, as well as has attempted upon dual occasions to pierce to a brand new place as well as leave him.

me as well as a lady have been regularly together you go out a single to 3 times a week, shes met my folks as well as friends, wev outlayed 3 nights in a quarrel together (no sex), as well as slept with any alternative twice, shes pronounced she can see us removing tied together as well as carrying kids as well as vital together. wer even off to see kings of leon in london for her birthday in 2weeks time, shes attempted after bad arguments to flog a man out though he regularly grovels behind in to her great books, as well as creates her feel bad he doesn’t have income to pierce out etc shes pronounced if it gose behind to how bad the been thats it with them.

some weeks have been great for me as well as her a little have been bad..no phone calls or told shes perplexing with him things have been great etc etc, thing is how do i win this lady over for great right away iv depressed in adore with her?!

Does a Grimsby accent sound posh?

Traveler — Wed, 16 Mar 2011 19:42:21 +0000

I have the Grimsby accent as well as during propagandize in Sunderland you regularly get done fun of since of it. They contend it sounds unequivocally different, as well as they contend it’s the London accent. you additionally hatred articulate in lessons since they regularly have fun of it.

Does it unequivocally receptive to advice posh, or is it since they do not know how to report it.
My friends contend it’s as well as OK different, yet they infrequently contend it’s unequivocally posh,

Also with it sounding posh they consider you have the whim house, even yet you can usually only means the lease of out house. My friends have been all richer than me yet they consider since I’m posh or since my step father buys things for him as well as my silent which you can means credit upon my phone, or the stipulate phone, so if you do not content behind they protest which I’m ignoring them.